In astrology there is an aspect which is a favourite of mine called Chiron. Known as the wounded healer, Chiron is amazing for explaining how you can transmute all pain you have felt into positivity and transform your pain into growth and love.
In Greek mythology, Chiron was a centaur meaning he was half man half horse. The man half of him symbolises his higher perspective and psychic side, and the animal half symbolises his physicality in the real world.Because he was a centaur and he had this duality of perspectives he never really fit in anywhere; as a result he was a bit of an outcast. He was strange to humans and strange to animals, so he took sanctuary in being skilled in all of the arts, music, archery, and healing of day through no fault of his own, he was badly injured in the leg. It was really tragic because he was such a beautiful soul and he was always striving to help others. Although he was so skilled at helping and healing others, he couldn’t heal himself.Prometheus was another demigod who was punished by Zeus. Chiron seeked out Prometheus for support as both of them were in great pain, but Chiron was so unsettled by seeing a fellow being in pain that he went to Zeus and requested to take on Prometheus’ wounds in order to reduce the amount of suffering being experienced by the collective. He figured that because he was already in pain, he might as well take on that of others in order to free them.
Zeus was so impressed by this act of selflessness that he chose to make Chiron a god in the heavens (dead) so that Chiron can help people from a place of painlessness.
In astrology, whichever place your Chiron falls in is wherever you feel most hard done by in life.
The teaching here is that if you are feeling pain, if you feel cheated by life, wherever you have felt most hard done by, you have a choice. You can either sit and wallow in self pity, or you can seek to help and support others going through the same thing. Try and right a wrong. You can either continue to cry like a bitch for centuries and stay where you are for years to come, or embrace the opportunity for growth. Reject the idea that you are a victim and instead choose to see this misfortune as a test, master the lesson and overcome that hurdle.
If you’ve made a mistake, make it right and teach others to not do the same. If you’ve been hurt, teach others how you healed. Learn the lesson, grow from it, move on.
By helping others we help ourselves. Yeah we have a right to grieve and all that bollocks, lord knows I have, but there comes a time where we just have to get our head out of our own arse and look forwards. It is what it is, but what can you do with it? Transmute any feelings of victimhood and negativity into power and positivity. Whinging gets you no where. Wouldn’t you rather be remembered for being badass than being a little bitch?