Before we even get into this, whenever I do a piece about gender or whatever I always just wanna specify that I honestly couldn’t give less of a shit what gender you were born as or what you want to identify as unless you particularly want me to. Everyone is valid, everyone deserves the freedom to create, discover and own their identity, and everyone should be loved.
We are going from a world of duality and split attitudes, unsettlement, the inability to compromise, competitiveness, etc. to a world of unity and justice.
You might notice that shifts come in sudden changes.
We are going from a world of duality and conflict to a world of understanding and ‘unity’; and one of two things are gonna happen. People are either going to be able to adapt, or people are not going to be able to function on this planet anymore. I’m not saying that to be scary or heavy metal I’m saying it because that’s the way it be- if you notice that you’re hearing about a lot more people dying or getting ill or struggling it’s because either they are being forced to wake up and transform, or because their soul contract with this world is up. I hope it doesn’t sound like I am baring judgement because I’m not, these people could have beautiful souls. This is just an explanation. If their soul wanted them to live through this transformation, if that is what they intended to do when they incarnated here, they would.
Me saying that may trigger some people and to that I say, you are entitled to your understanding of things just as I am entitled to mine.
So with regards to these shifts, I see this astrologically and I feel it energetically. I understand what these shifts are and why certain events happen at a certain time in a way that allows me to wrap my head around it.
Many people struggle because they don’t know what is going on, all they know is that life is coming at them really fast and they’re struggling to keep it together. Losing jobs, having a sudden change in life paths, dealing with court, having everything come to a head.
Certain groups are struggling to get with the times because of how much they have been conditioned to think a certain way.
Older people were raised in a world which operated from a place of duality. Getting used to a world where equality is expected and understanding is expected is going to be a challenge, but it’s a necessary change because there is not place for hatred in this world as time goes on.
Younger people will find that they come into this world with a force in them that doesn’t agree with the way we have been taught things. The world is a different place and that is what we are used to, the attitudes passed down to us are something that we are here to change through breaking that chain of programming. That’s why we have the force in us- to fight the good fight- not to numb ourselves and spiral into depression because we doubt ourselves and try to numb the protest in us.
This sounds crazy, but this is what I’m getting, and I’m always told to share what I get.
I said all of that to say this; because we are entering this world, we are being taught to share our perceptions and injustices in order to understand each other and let go of conflicts.
I encourage anybody who has faced oppression in any form to share their side of the story. I am a white female in Western society so really, there are people who have it worse off.
If you’re a member of the LGBTQ+ community, an ethnic minority, a recovering addict, an adult who was mistreated as a child, anybody who has been made to feel inferior- I encourage you to speak up. There are people who need your story.
I still have some things to say as a female.
Since I was about 14 years old I have been disrespected, degraded, ignored, neglected and sexually harassed for existing.
I’m not going to go into stories, because you have heard them all before. Women are coming out with stories like these everyday, and that’s only a small percentage of injustices reported.
I’m going to explain to you why I am frustrated, and what men have done to make me frustrated- because I know men can be better.
What hurts me the most is that men I look up to or have once cared deeply for are not open enough to be able to understand why I am hurt and they are unwilling to communicate with me so that they understand to not do it again.
I am either mistreated and left to just sit with it, or I am mistreated and called to cut somebody out of my life because they don’t have the capacity to respect me and treat me like a valid human being.
The distorted masculine is a sensitive and broken person who has been conditioned to react from a place of selfishness and aggression for the purpose of survival, like they have to fight to prove their worth.
The new man is somebody who is woke enough to understand how they may be negatively affecting people (women) without becoming so sensitive that they lash out once they are rejected or called out for their bullshit.
The new man does not use sex as an escape route or coping mechanism without considering the way their actions may be causing harm to women emotionally or physically.
The new man considers and cares about his place in the world and what it is doing to those around him.
The new man respects those around him and doesn’t appease the negative and detrimental behaviour of his friends for the sake of an easy life.
The new man communicates without arguing. Takes accountability.
They understand that toxic masculinity is a dramatic reaction to being hurt, so when they get hurt, they deal with it before causing mass harm to other people.
The new man is somebody who forgives themselves and uses their education to stand up for those who are victimised and hurt.
This is what Gilette is telling you, this is what the world is telling you. We are not trying to fight you, we are trying to protect ourselves. We could use your help, but we don’t want to ask for it or beg for it because it makes us look weak and vulnerable- which has been taken advantage of in the past. It’s easier to get angry and fight you and get on with it as though we don’t need you all together. It would be a hell of a lot easier with you.
A lot of you will wake up, likely because you have had to feel immense amounts of guilt or pain or even depression to get to that point of transformation.
Please speak up. Now is the time.
If you want to get in contact with me anonymously so that I can write about anything you may not want to put into writing yourself, feel free to.